One day you’re young living what you think is your best life when BAM you’re older and life gets in the way. 

But that’s the beauty of life – to grow, learn, laugh, cry.

With that in mind, we decided to ask our readers to share something they didn’t understand until they reached their 50s.

Check out the responses below. 

Dawn Dominick – It’s OK to say NO and it’s OK to have your own opinions.

Anne van Heel – The joys of grand parenting.

Julia Santos – That other people’s opinions don’t matter. Live for you. They are living their best lives.

Moira Tyrrell – Worrying about things that may not happen. It will get you nowhere.

Sue Carter – That your children are great company as adults.

Aileen Barrat Zanelli – That your youth has passed you by before you realise it.

Kathy Davey – That I didn’t know everything, in fact I knew nothing.

Isobel Siebel – Your body ages but you still feel young in the head.

Barbara Williamson – That you become invisible to younger generations.

Frank Derksen – The amount of damage you do to your body when you’re young.

Share something you really didn’t understand until your 50s here.

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